Image Prompt 067 – Giving Thanks

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I chose the image of the pumpkin pies and recyclable cans for my twenty-minute sprint today.  We’re a little ahead of season for fall squash pies, but oh well.

Giving Thanks:

Cary finished washing the last of the dishes from making the pies and set everything on the towel on the counter to dry.  They’d already filled the drying rack and Cary hadn’t had time to dry anything yet.

“Pies in the oven?” Kelly asked, peeking in through the window in the over door.

“The pumpkin ones anyway,” Cary replied.  “I promised Mom I’d make a pecan too.”

“Ooh,” Kelly said, her eyes bright and wide as she looked over at Cary.  “The normal or the chocolate one?”

“Probably both since I know you like the chocolate better,” Cary replied, laughing.  His little sister loved sweets of all kinds, but especially anything chocolate.

“You love me,” she said, throwing her arms around his neck and kissing his cheek.  “I’ll help if you want,” she added as she let go.  “I can be a dish troll or help measure things or whatever will allow me to be supportive and not throw off your flow.”

“Let’s start with drying dishes,” Cary said.  “I’m running out of room and I’ll need some of this for the other pies.”

“Yes, sir, ma’am, sir,” Kelly said, actually snapping her heels together and saluting him before grabbing the dish towel from its hook over the sink.  “You’ll have to help me remember where you put all this stuff, but I can at least get it all dry for you.”

“Just stack it all on that counter,” Cary said, waving to the one furthest from the stove.  “I’ll need some of it left out anyway.”

“So when is David getting home?” Kelly asked.

“Hopefully in time for dinner,” Cary replied.

“Is it a deadline again?” Kelly asked softly.  “Or something else?”

Cary’s husband David worked for their local newspaper.  It was the kind of small town paper that still put out editions on holidays and on the day after, so David very rarely got an entire holiday off.

“He volunteered this year,” Cary said.  “So his counterpart could drive up to see her parents.  It’s a fourteen-hour trip, and she only asks every other year.”

“Aren’t there other people that can be acting editors during holidays?” Kelly asked.

“There are,” Cary replied.  “But they’re all more senior than David, and not as nice.”  Secretly, Cary thought the Editor in Chief always asked David first knowing that David would volunteer and then he could take advantage.  He didn’t think it was because David was gay, just that David had family that was local and didn’t appear to mind missing big chunks of the holiday time.

“Does he mind?” Kelly asked.  “I mean really?  I know he doesn’t let his boss know if he does.”

“I don’t think he does,” Cary replied.  “He liked being helpful, and letting others have the time and space to visit with family.  It probably doesn’t hurt that he doesn’t see his family, so this gives me some alone time with you all, and keeps him out of the way while I’m cooking.”

Kelly laughed.  “Yeah, one person invading your kitchen is plenty, right?”

“You aren’t invading,” he said, giving her a one armed hug as he passed her on his way to the pantry to start gathering ingredients for the next set of pies.

“It helps that we can come down for the whole week too, huh?” Kelly asked.  “So we still get to see a lot of him even if he’s working half days most of the week.”

“I’m glad you can take so much time,” he said.  There had been a few years when she hadn’t been able to get any time off at the holidays, but now she was a senior designer at the firm and she could take time whenever she wanted as long as her projects stayed on time.  She was amazing and efficient, so it gave her a lot more flexibility.

“I’m glad you’re in a job that lets you now too,” she said.  “I was worried you were going to stay in retail forever.”

“Yeah, no,” Cary replied.  He’d started working at the local bookstore when he was in high school, and kept with it through college and after.  He’d been the store manager, second in authority only to the owner by the time he’d finally found something he liked better.  He’d loved the owner, and he still loved the bookstore, but the stress and rush at the holidays was excruciating.

Now he was the executive assistant to the vice president of human resources at a staffing firm.  He worked from home 75% of the time, because when she wasn’t in the office, she didn’t need him to be.  She took at least a week off for each holiday, and as long as he kept her schedule up to date for the week after and had all her expenses turned in on time, she encouraged him to take extra time at the holidays too.

“Look who I found?” their mom said as she breezed into the kitchen.

She had their cat Oliver in her arms and David trailing behind her.

“You got out early,” Cary said with a smile.

“Three of the staff writers insisted on staying late to help finish the layout and editing so I could,” David said.

“You’ll have to take them goodies in thanks,” Cary replied, stepping over to give his mom and the cat a quick hug and then kiss his husband.  “You’re all welcome to stay as long as you park yourselves at the bar and stay out of my cooking space,” he said with a broad smile.

David laughed, and slid onto his favorite barstool.  He rested his chin in his hand with a smile.  He’s spent half of their dates the first year watching Cary cook dinner.

Winter Travels

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I don’t usually do much traveling between the Christmas holidays and spring, but this year my parents needed some help moving my grandmother from her apartment to a room in the main building of her continuing care retirement community.  She’s still in pretty good health for a woman in her 90s, but she doesn’t move around as well as she used to and needs the support of being in the main building and regularly checked on by the nursing staff.

So the husband and I set out from North Carolina to Pennsylvania last Friday and returned home on Monday.  We helped sort through things in my grandmother’s old apartment that wouldn’t fit in her new room, saw my great uncle and his wife, and did what we could to keep Gramma occupied and less morose about the move.  She was disappointed to lose the apartment and the space, but what hit hardest was having to give away her cat.  The pretty ginger tabby was previously owned by one of her friends who passed away, and she’s passed him along to another friend in the community, so at least she’ll be able to go visit him. Continue reading

Vacation Time – Great Smokie Mountains

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This week is my annual vacation with my husband and his family.  It’s one of my favorite things that doesn’t have to do with NaNoWriMo.  It’s me and my husband, his parents, and my sister-in-law (SIL) and her husband.  I joke that I stole all my sister’s in-law karma, since she does not have the best in-laws and I have the ABSOLUTE BEST in-laws.

Seriously.  They’re amazing.

And that’s just the basis for the great vacation.  We all get along pretty well as long as no one brings up politics.  I can even handle the in-law’s standard poodle and SIL’s smooth coat collie for the week.  (I lam solidly in the cat-person camp.)  SIL is the alpha animal of all alpha animals, so the poodle is super well behaved when she’s around, and her collie is actually a service animal and as well trained as you think he is based on that.  (She trained him herself which is also kind of amazing.  Have I mentioned how much I admire my SIL?)  Even when he’s not working and just goofing around having fun he’s super polite and well-mannered and follows orders.

This year, we’ve booked a cabin in the mountains (and by that I mean a cabin-themed house big enough to sleep 8 adults).  Each couple is cooking two meals to cover dinners, and the younger generation has collectively packed enough board games to fill the entire week.  As I joked in our group text message “it hurts nothing but our backs to bring more than we can possibly play.” Continue reading

Image Prompt 019 Response – The Petting Zoo that Doesn’t Allow Petting

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I selected the image of the hairy cow for my 20 minute spring this time around.  I tried something a little different as well.  I don’t write young children characters much, so I tried my hand at it.  I hope you enjoy.

The Petting Zoo that Doesn’t Allow Petting

It was a cow.  More specifically a hairy cow.

It didn’t make up for the fact that Kylie didn’t want to be there.

It was supposed to be a petting zoo, and it was supposed to make her little six-year-old cousin Angela bearable because she loved animals.

There was no petting of the animals.  Most especially the hairy cow with the giant horns.  Even if the sign hadn’t expressly forbidden petting, feeding, or in other ways putting your hands across the gate, the cow was lying down feet away where no one could possibly reach it if they wanted to.

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Merry Christmas!

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Since my Friday post landed on Christmas itself, this is going to be a pretty short post.

I hope everyone had a wonderful winter holiday, whichever one they celebrate.

Today I’d like to share some of the images of the holiday I’ve taken over the years. I have a dozen for you. I find it interesting to see how my Christmas imagery changes over the years. Enjoy.

2015-12-25 Christmas 1988

1988

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The Hands that Mold: My Family

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For those new to my blog, the Hands that Mold series of posts is about the people in my life that have helped shape me into the writer I am today.

This post is about my family.

I was lucky to grow up in a family that values learning and intellectual pursuits.  I might not have turned into the person I am without all the family influences in that direction, so I’m very grateful to both my immediate and extended family for always encouraging me in my drive to learn and then to write and create.

Growing up, it was just my parents, my sister and me.  We moved around a decent bit, especially when I was younger.  We’d live somewhere for a few years, once as little as eight months, before Dad’s job forced us to move once more.  It made for an interesting childhood.  I lived several placed before I started school, and because of all the moves I attended two elementary schools, two middle schools, and two high schools. Continue reading

Appreciating Your Mother

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Mother’s Day isn’t one of those holidays you get time off for, but it’s one that I really love. Mother’s Day is all about celebrating the mothers in your life, be they your own mother, your daughter, sister, wife, or friend. I may be a little late this year, but I still wanted to share my thoughts on Mother’s Day.

Through the years, I’ve done a lot of different things to celebrate Mother’s Day with my mom. When we were very young, my sister and I made her pictures and other hand-made gifts. As we grew older and learned to save our allowance and gift money, we’d buy her real presents. We gave her picture frames, personalized name plates for her office, and tools for her gardening projects. Continue reading